liberal-lesbophobia:

liberal-lesbophobia:

Straight Couples can do one (1) un-stereotypical thing in terms of labor distribution (a man did his daughter’s hair??? awwww!! a woman is a housewife but actively chose to be a housewife because she enjoys it? right on sister!!) and be considered radical pioneers of gender equality, but Gay Couples have to impossibly perfectly balance our presentation and behavior at all times or we’re just mimicking straight people and replicating archaic misogynistic ideals 

I still think of that time someone told me that a woman proposing to her boyfriend is more subversive of heteropatriarchy than when ““the butch one”” of a lesbian couple proposes