Narcissistic Manipulation: Escape The False Reflection

thesocialanatomy:

A Narcissist will do/say the most horrifying and cold things when you try to stand up for yourself against their manipulative behavior and controlling ways, disagree with them or try to expose their false mask.
Here are a few signs you are dealing with a Narcissist.

1. Often they will blame you for causing them to get angry by questioning their behavior. You are the reason they are angry because you should know not to tell them they are wrong. In their eyes they are always right.

2. They will play the victim card themselves and play up to your empathetic nature that originally hooked you in the first place. After all the Narcissist can not be seen to give away any of the attention that they are so desperate to feed off, nor can they be seen as weak or losing control.

3. Devaluation. Typically a Narcissist will begin hooking you in by using hoovering techniques which include but are not limited to; sexual manipulation, doing things to make you dependent on them, isolating you from friends, family or anyone who threatens to take the control of the Narcissist away from you, and the worst of all the silence treatment. 
They will make you feel weak and depressed because you failed to continue providing with them with their narcissistic supply.

4. Discarding and abandoning. If you expose them they will attack, rage and often block you, stop speaking to you, go ‘No Contact’ in order to reinstate their control and manipulation. To make sure you are 100 percent dependent on them and in the hopes that you will learn never to question them again. This is often the most painful techniques of the Narcissist and usually the most effective. They have ultimately become your drug of choice and you will feel empty without their attention which will make you question yourself and make you feel like you are going crazy.

Narcissistic abuse is real. I’ve seen it up close. 
They seem like the most amazing, helpful and loving people. They can even act like they are the codependent person in the relationship. 
Truth is they do not care about you. They don’t care about anyone. It is impossible to change a Narcissist and they often have never felt love them selves therefore are incapable of loving you.

If you think you know someone like this. Leave. It’s as simple and complicated as that.
Peace and love.