no matter many cute, sparkly words you put into your argument to try and prove butches have some sort of privilege for being masculine/unfeminine, it doesn’t change the fact that you are essentially implying women who choose not to perform the violent, harmful, and exhausting demands of femininity somehow magically possess male privilege now and should be punished for that. you are punishing women for not performing femininity. just like misogynistic men, conservatives, and homophobes do on the regular. you are no different than them! no matter how much you like to think you are! you just found a new, Progressive Looking way to punish women for not conforming to harmful societal expectations. which groups you claim to hate have been doing for decades
I was reading a book containing a collection of secular Polish poems from before 1500 for my thesis and most of them were all pretty serious – either love poems, odes or satires – but at the very end I found my favorite one:
“This is my rhyme: Warm bread with butter in it.”
From a book containing a collection of Old Polish texts (as found in a 1460 Latin codex):
“Kind God, give [me] calmth, [give me] peace And a loaf of bread with Czech cheese.”
do not equate being gay with having a kink. do not equate being gay with just sex and nothing else. do not assume and treat all gay affection like its some filthy sex act just because you personally dont like being around it. that’s a ‘you’ problem, buddy.