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Valentine’s Day questions BE NOSY PLEASE

1: Do you have a crush at the moment?

2: Have you ever been deeply in love?

3: Longest relationship you’ve ever been in?

4: Have you ever changed for someone?

5: How is your relationship with your ex?

6: Have you ever been cheated on?

7: Have you ever cheated?

8: Would you date someone who’s well known for cheating?

9: What’s the most important part of a relationship?

10: Do you like to be in serious relationships or just flings?

11: When you are dating someone do you believe in going on “breaks”?

12: How many people have you ever hooked up with?

13: What’s one thing you regret saying/doing in a previous relationship?

14: What age do you think is appropriate for kids to start having sex?

15: Do you believe in the phrase “age is just a number”?

16: Do you believe in “love at first sight”?

17: Do you believe it’s possible to fall in love on the internet?

18: What do you consider a deal breaker?

19: How do you know it’s time to end a relationship?

20: Are you currently in a relationship?

21: Do you think people who have dated can stay friends?

22: Do you think people should date their friends?

23: How many relationships have you had?

24: Do you think love can last forever?

25: Do you believe love can conquer all things?

26: Would you break up with someone your parents didn’t approve of?

27: If you could go back in time and give yourself one piece of advice about dating what would it be?

28: Do you think long distance relationships can work?

29: What do you notice first about another person?

30: Are you straight, bi, gay or pansexual?

31: Would it bother you if your partner suffered from any mental illness?

32: Have you ever been in an abusive relationship?

33: Do you want to get married one day?

34: What do you think about getting your partner’s name tattooed?

35: Could you be in a relationship without sex?

36: Are you still a virgin?

37: What’s more important: Looks or personality?

38: Do you enjoy love films?

39: Have you ever given anyone/received roses?

40: Have you ever had a valentine?

41: What’s your imagination of a “perfect date”?

42: Have you ever read “Romeo & Juliet”?

43: What’s more important: Your partner or your friends?

44: Would you consider yourself “romantic”?

45: Could you imagine to date one of your current friends?

46: Have you ever been “friendzoned”?

47: Which “famous couple” is your favorite?

48: What’s your favorite love song?

49: Have you ever broken someone’s heart?

50: If you’re single, why do you think you are?

51: Would you rather date someone who’s rich but a douchebag or someone who’s poor but a nice guy?

52: Are you good at giving other people advices regarding dating/ relationships?

53: Are you jealous of couples when you’re single?

54: How important is it to make a relationship official (p.e. on facebook)?

55: Would you consider yourself “clingy”, “overly attached” or “jealous”?

56: Have you ever “destroyed” a relationship?

57: Do you think it’s silly to consider suicide because of a broken heart?

58: Are you the “dominant” or the “submissive” part in a relationship?

59: Have you ever forgotten important dates like your partner’s birthday or your anniversary?

60: What’s your opinion on open relationships?

61: Who’s more important: Your partner or your family?

62: How do you define “cheating”?

63: Is watching porn while being in a relationship inappropriate?

64: Do you think Valentine’s Day is overrated?

65: Would you consider yourself a “cuddler”?

LOOK AT THIS!!!!

@aquilea-of-the-lonely-mountain sent me lovely things because my @mithril-and-acorns giftee was a no-response. Here’s a transcript of the lovely card:

“Dear [Seas],

A very enjoyable part of gift-giving is seeing the reaction on the other’s face…and that’s why I got these key necklaces! One is for you, the other for whomever you like! So you will also get to see a happy donee. 🙂

Yours, Aquilea/[Name].”

The silver one is now the property of @wikdsushi and I’m wearing the gold one – and they’re LOCKETS!!!! Cat photos will totally go inside at some point. Also, there’s candy!

Thank you so much, Aquilea! You’re the best!

In light of Mark Salling

In order to avoid triggering people, I’m putting this below the cut. My opinion of pedophilia:

It’s not an innate orientation. Which does mean I think it can be changed – but that requires that the pedophile in question stop watching child porn and videos titled things like ‘teen gets railed by her father.’ If they stop purposefully reinforcing the dopamine pathways that make them associate children and sex, they’ll be able to get off to grown people like normal human beings – basically, they’ll be able to ping the buttons with simple stimulation.

If they truly ‘can’t help it’ and are ‘non-offending’, however, then they doubly need to stay the hell away from child porn, get constant therapy, and accept with good grace that they can’t safely be within ten feet of a child. IMO, having sexual fantasies about a child is abuse of that child, even if you don’t lay a finger on them.

It’s ironic that these guys (because the vast majority of them are male) dig in their heels and publicly scream that it’s part of their identity and it’s innate and they can’t help it and they’re NOT bad at all, because in doing so, they are reinforcing the convictions of – if not helping to create – other pedophiles.